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I can say that I am a strong-willed individual yet intensely private. I believe in determination in the sense that if you want something and you go after it quitely but insistently and wholeheartedly, you can get it. Also, it is always good to know that we can take steps to make our lives better even more full of happiness, by keeping involved and reaching out to others and enjoying the worls around us.
February 29

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December 08

What's our happiness thermostat set at?

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For my December Blog….Let me share you about the article I read. It was about the happiness phenomenon – how the idea of happiness is being seriously studied in psychological circles and the possibilities that you can actively increase your overall happiness.  Evidently, it used to be thought that we were "stuck" with a certain level of happiness, like a basic setting on a thermostat.

But now, more research has shown that we can indeed actually work on improving our happiness level.  Apart from our major life events, good or bad, that have short-term effects, achieving a daily level of satisfaction is really the goal.  And there's a very simple exercise to help us do this.

It is suggested that we think back over our day and pick three good things that happened, and analyze why they occurred.  Now, we are not talking about something major, like winning the lottery or getting a promotion.  They can be quite small, like finding a quarter on the street, to getting a compliment, or finding a parking space.  It is that the effect of this little exercise is to make us focus more on the good things that happen, rather than any disappointments of the day.

So, why not try it, there is also that famous quote by Abraham Lincoln, "people are as happy as they make up their minds to be." 

Let’s go ahead and set our happiness thermostat on "high".

                                           Merry Christmas to you All...

                             From: Mary Rose

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November 27

Happy Holidays...

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 Thanks to you Ilka for the Photo...

Happy Thanksgiving to All!

Wishing you all a Happy Reflection

And a Wonderful Thanksgiving Season.

 

November 15

Prayer

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                                  Birthday Prayer:

Lord, let this feast of my birth be a reminder to me of all the gifts and blessings I have received from You this day and all the days of my life. On my day of celebration, I thank you for my life and all of my blessings and ask for another year filled with Your presence in my life that I may continue to grow in Your love.

Thank you for my whole family, friends, and all the people I come to know in this journey for they have come to provide me with guidance and support, aid me physically and spiritually.  Thank you for Terry for his being the most incredible man a woman could have beside her.  I knew from the beginning how special he was. Thank you for letting them all come into my life as my turn has come to share, grow ad learn. They have brought me an experience of peace. They taught me something I never have done. Grant me that I may grow in wisdom and grace, and strengthen my trust in Your Goodness all the days of my life.

Creator God, I do not know what lies ahead for me this year. Yet I know that You are holding my future in Your hand. Let my ways be pleasing to you. As You have promised, be with me, Lord. Grid me with Your strength and grace so that I can live for Your light. Enable me to draw closer to You that I may walk in Your peace and be the creative and loving person that You intend for me to be. In my heart may Your peace which passes understanding abide all the days of my life. I ask this and all things in the sure and certain knowledge of Your love for me and for all Your people, through Jesus Christ Your Son. Amen

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October 28

My space friends....

 

I would like to thank my following space friends:

To Ilka, for the wonderful picture you made for me.  It is beautiful and I really like it

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 To The Editor - MSN Newspaper for the cute present, I would like to invite you all... if you have anything happening on your site that you think readers would be interested in , just click on the picture below and you'll reach The Editor.

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 To Bernice – please don’t worry about that. You can always count on me. I wish you success in your studies and congratulations in advance.

To Tana, Michiko ,Marie ,David , Jeremy, Thomas and to all my space friends – Thanks a lot  for leaving your marks here  to say hello.

Hope you would all continue visiting my space.

Wishing you all the best,

Mary Rose 

P.S. It is going to be my birthday on October 30, please do watch out for my next blog.  

 

August 21

It's great to be back...

 
 

So it’s been a while....

Since I last posted. This also means it has been six months since I posted last. The time really flies. And I would like to thank my space friends who have been visiting my site every so often and I also would like to apologize about the long absence. By the way, here is what has been happening.

·          February – I arrived here in the Philippines and went straight to my sister’s place to celebrate my niece’s birthday.  The whole family and Terry (my boyfriend) were there. My father decided to extend his vacation till March so as to spent time with us. We went home then day after that. Some relatives came over to see me.  I also went out to meet with my old friends and spent time with them.  There were picnics and dinners.

·          March - Graduation Day for my two kid brothers. EJ just graduated from High school and Ern from the primary level.  My father flew back to KSA.  I was happy because we really did had the time together.

·          May – Dr. Peter Wong and Dr. Sheila Toquero (Terry’s cousin) got married. It was great seeing them getting married. They had a wonderful wedding. May 13th, I found a job as a Telemarketer in Baguio City. I got a warm puppy and named him Patchi. He of course is looking very cute.

·          June – Jowell and Racquel’s wedding .  Again both are physicians and a cousin of Terry.

·          July - Work has been quite busy for me lately. There are a bunch of political calls we are doing right now. I will have to start making some posts specifically on work soon. Though due to my work schedule I can only be home during weekend, I can say that Patchi had come along nicely and I have really enjoyed seeing him develop. 

Above is a quick high level of what I’ve been up to. I really miss writing entries. But I can say that, For now, I'm around. <

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January 30

Thank You

I want to thank each and every one of you for your wonderful comments...

Hello everybody... I know it's been a few days since I've written but things have been really hectic here with my work. As I have mentioned earlier about my plan of leaving for a change and I have been very busy packing up my things lately. I have been occupied as well handing over my responsibilities at work. Finally, I am done with all the documents and annual reports required.

For those who do not know me yet and what I do. Here is a little about me. I have stayed and worked for more than 3 years here in United Arab Emirates as Engineering Coordinator in one of the Rotana hotels here in Middle East. Rotana Hotel is one the leading Middle Eastern hotel chain at the moment. It has 22 hotel properties including all the resorts, 5 stars hotels, suites and inns. Last year, the company had opened 8 properties. This year, they are going to open 10 more properties. Unfortunately, they are only expanding in the Middle East.

I am going to miss a lot of things in here. I have been working with different types of nationalities yet I feel their respect on me. They have been so thoughtful at times, I see roses, chocolates and other things placed on my table not because they want to court me. But simply because they feel like doing such. No matter how small it is, it is just the thought that counts most. When I feel they are pressured, I try to talk to them and joke with them. Every time I get the chance, I tried to go near them and asked them about their families. It has been great knowing their little stories and their culture.

Everybody was surprised at work when they learned I am leaving. I can feel their sadness and I was surprised that most of them want to throw a leave party for me. I am flattered that I feel their sincerity. Though they belong to different types of groups and they have scheduled different dates for the party yet the big one will be on 31st. (I am going to post the photos when I am done with them).

It is also known in the hotel that I am one of the people who have received such respect and admiration. It so heart warming. I thank God for taking care of me while I stay here. I am going back home to Philippines, stay there for awhile until I find another job overseas. I am going to see my father who works in KSA and whom I have not seen for morethan 4 years. I will be spending time with my family and friends at home and it is going to be wonderful. I have missed them very much as well.

Being away from home and love ones is really difficult but I needed to come here for my work. It is the Good Lord that I have been with all the time. Every morning, I open my eyes and thank Him, asking Him to make use of me for His will, that may people see Him on me, that may He be my hand, my eyes, my ears, mind and my heart. I am aware that you cannot please everybody. But you can just feel when people get to accept and love you. I also pray that I may handle pressure properly and understand things which don’t fit my way. I pray that may He keep my family, love ones and friends safe and well. I am pleased with the fruit of His spirit which had kept my Integrity still. I am going to treasure and cherish each one of my friends at work, families who have welcomed me here and friends i met along and you my space friends. Thank you all for being part of me.

I am really looking forward to this coming year and with all its sweet surprises. So, it is with high-hopes and a light heart that I begin this new year with great anticipation for what is to come, for the many opportunities that each day brings for me to find all the things that I wish for all of you...HAPPINESS...PEACE....and above all else is... LOVE...

And before I go, I am going to leave you something to think about as anyway we are approaching the month of Love month of February. I may not be writing entries for the next few days or perhaps for a month. But I promise I’ll be back. May God bless you all and thanks again…..

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE

Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But

if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can

make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it

to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.


To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about

finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.


To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE


Never say "I love you" if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they

aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look

in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is

to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works

both ways...


To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED


Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry." Not "where are you",

but "I'm right here." Not "how could you", but "I understand." Not "I

wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."


To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how

good you are for each other.


To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to

go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.


To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE


How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too

persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,

and get hurt but never keep the pain.


To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but

it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.


To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when

someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you

love has no idea how you feel.


To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to

find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not

going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....


TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......


My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,

never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

January 15

Random Thoughts

I received an inquiry about the comment I left from one of my space friends Tana. I may not be able to answer properly the question I raised for her blog entry "Head or Heart" which is Why Head is situated higher or why it is placed higher than the Heart” But I can say, every situation requires a lot of thinking and that sometimes we assume that our heart thinks.  That in love, we find our hearts being favored more.  But from general opinion, Head is placed higher for it has its own  purpose and whenever necessary it should serve its purpose. It will always be a mystery, though.  I just feel that I cannot leave this blog without sharing this article by Kent Nerburn. It has always been my favorite.

 

Here’s to you Tana and to all who wants to be filled as well with love.

 

 

 

Falling in Love


It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails. You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do anymore than take the life out of the experience.

Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share.

And just as life is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways. Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come to you in full flower, and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we all share.

More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on. When this happens to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is gift that is freely given and a gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.

They want answers where there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other person no longer love them, or they try to get their lover to change, thinking that if some small things were different, love would bloom again.

They blame their circumstances and say that if they go far away and start a new life together, their love will grow.

They try anything to give meaning to what happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
You need to know this about love, and to accept it. You need to treat what it brings you with kindness.

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her, feel honoured that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead becomes someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it choose to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. If you keep your heart open, it will come.

January 04

Change...Principle of Life

Happy New Year Everyone…

 

I am now back and would like to continue writing about my blog on insightful teachings.  I am actually heading the path to some changes..... . After 3 years and 6 months on my job, I finally decided to leave for career advancement elsewhere (though haven’t found one yet at this time).This move will definitely cause lots of changes on the side.. a change on environment and a  change on habits. In every decision that we make, I can say that consequences (be it favorable or unfovarable one) always come along. Yet I always want to believe that there  is nothing   to fear from change. Here’s what I thought and had reflected recently about “changes”.........

 

   An important part of building the life  we want is learning to accept change.  And not only to accept it, but to embrace it, and seek it out.  Change is the principle of life itself.  As Charles Darwin has said, "It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change."

 

    As a matter of fact, we are changing right this minute without even noticing it.  Did we know that the cells in our bodies are constantly changing and renewing themselves?  Every four weeks, our skin is totally new.  our gums are replaced every two weeks, and our stomach linings every four days.  Over a year, 95% of all the trillions of cells that make up "us" are changed.

 

    Of course, this is happening with no effort on our part.  But if we're called upon to react to a change from the outside, or when we find ourselves in a stagnant situation and know that something needs to change – that's when, for a lot of us, change can be frightening.  This can be from the uncertainty it brings with it, or because it pushes us out of our comfort zone.

 

    What's important to remember is that change always brings opportunity, an opportunity to grow in a new direction.  I guess there is nothing to fear from change.  We should only fear not to change.

    As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience."

 

    We can't afford to let any fears stand in our ways.  So when a change appears suddenly in our lives, rather than retreat into our shells, I guess we should come out to embrace it, and look for the opportunities it presents to grow.  Or when we reach a stalemate in life, we should step out boldly and initiate a change ourselves.

   

 May you all never stop growing.

 

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December 16

Merry Christmas Everyone...

 
Wishing you Christmas Surprises...
and Lots of Dream Come True.
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